Questions & Answers
Planning a wedding comes with plenty of questions. I've photographed weddings since 2011, and many of the same worries come up again and again, from rain and timelines to family photographs and feeling uncomfortable in front of the camera. So I've put the important answers together here. Not a list of rules, just practical advice based on what I've learned from photographing real wedding days.
What it feels like to be photographed by me, and how I keep the experience relaxed, natural and centred around your wedding.
My approach is natural, relaxed and documentary. Most of the time, I'm watching what is happening rather than trying to control it. The laughter, nerves, hugs, reactions and small moments in between are what make every wedding different, and those are the things I'm always looking for.
Documentary photography doesn't mean that I never step in. When a little direction will help, I'll give it. When something is already happening beautifully on its own, I'll leave it alone. The amount of direction I give depends on you, the situation and what is happening around us.
My aim is to create photographs that remind you not only of what your wedding looked like, but of the people, atmosphere and emotions that made it yours.
Absolutely. You don't need to know how to pose, where to put your hands or what you're supposed to do. That's my job to worry about, not yours.
Every couple is different. Some people relax as soon as they start moving and talking to each other. Others prefer a little more direction. I pay attention to your personalities and body language and adjust the way I work accordingly. Sometimes that means a simple suggestion about where to stand or what to do; sometimes it means giving you space and letting the moment develop naturally.
If you're particularly nervous about being photographed, a pre-wedding session can also be a lovely way to get comfortable before the wedding. It's available as an optional extra and is included in my Premium Collection.
There isn't one fixed amount of time that works for every wedding. Your venue, weather, light, travel, family photographs and, most importantly, your own priorities all affect how we approach the couple session.
When conditions are good, I usually prefer one relaxed session rather than repeatedly taking you away from your guests. On other days it makes more sense to divide the photographs into shorter periods, particularly if the weather is changing. If beautiful evening light appears and you love that kind of photograph, I may suggest stepping outside for another ten minutes rather than turning it into a second long photoshoot.
I want you to have beautiful portraits, but I don't want you to miss your wedding in order to create them.
A First Look can work beautifully for some weddings, but I don't believe every couple needs one. If seeing each other privately before the ceremony feels right for you, it can give you a quiet moment together and sometimes allows us to create some couple photographs before the ceremony, leaving more time afterwards to enjoy your guests.
Equally, if you've always imagined seeing each other for the first time as you walk into the ceremony, I wouldn't try to change that. The schedule should support the experience you want from your wedding, not the other way around.
Yes. Being a documentary photographer doesn't mean ignoring traditional family photographs. Weddings can bring together people who live in different parts of Ireland or different parts of the world, and sometimes a simple family portrait becomes much more important with time.
Before the wedding, we'll include the important family groups in your Wedding Scenario. I normally recommend choosing a Family Helper from each side who knows everyone and can help gather people quickly. It makes the whole process much more relaxed and means you spend less time waiting for someone who has disappeared to the bar.
If family photographs are a big priority for you, we'll make space for them. If they aren't, I won't force a long list on you. The important thing is that the plan reflects what matters to you.
The practical side of how I work, from morning preparations and ceremonies to timelines, family photographs and the people working alongside me.
Yes, from a photography point of view. Before the wedding I review your plans and Wedding Scenario, and if I can see something that may make the day unnecessarily rushed, I'll let you know and suggest an alternative.
That might mean allowing a little more breathing room during morning preparations, changing when we do family photographs, or adapting the portrait session around travel, weather or daylight. If it would be easier to talk everything through, we can arrange a relaxed video call.
I'm your photographer rather than your wedding planner, but after photographing weddings for many years I know where photography can accidentally start taking too much time.
I want photography to fit around your wedding, rather than your wedding having to fit around photography.
We adapt. I keep an eye on the weather throughout the day and change the order of photographs when it makes sense. Sometimes a short dry window is all we need. At other times we use the best indoor spaces and return outside later.
This is one of the reasons I don't like building a wedding around a rigid photography schedule. Experience, flexibility and knowing when to change the plan are much more useful than hoping the forecast will behave.
And if it's raining and you're happy to embrace it, so am I. You don't need perfect weather to have a beautiful wedding gallery.
I mostly allow the morning to unfold naturally. I'm looking for the atmosphere, the people around you, the nerves, laughter, family interactions and all the small things that help explain what that part of the day felt like.
A little organisation can make a big difference without making anything feel staged. For example, if you're planning to give a gift to a parent or bridesmaid, let me know before it happens. I won't manufacture the reaction, but I can make sure I'm in the right place when the real one happens.
I also like to leave a little breathing room once you're dressed, particularly when preparations are happening at the family home. Those photographs with parents, siblings and the place itself often become a very meaningful part of the story.
Absolutely. The people and moments are at the heart of my work, but the details are part of the story too. You've often spent months choosing the flowers, stationery, jewellery, dress, table styling and all the personal touches that make the wedding yours.
Before the wedding I'll normally ask you to keep smaller personal items together during the morning so I can photograph them efficiently. Throughout the day I'll also photograph the venue, flowers, reception room and details as they naturally become part of the story.
The ceremony is one of the most important parts of the day, and I want to tell its complete story without becoming part of the ceremony myself.
Beforehand, I'll speak with the priest, celebrant or registrar when appropriate and respect any restrictions they have about where I can work. I use quiet cameras and move carefully rather than constantly walking around during important moments.
While I'm photographing what is happening in front of you, I'm also watching the people around you: parents, family, friends and the reactions you may never have seen yourselves. Those photographs are often just as important as the obvious moments.
You don't need to give me a checklist of all the standard wedding photographs. Your Wedding Scenario gives me the information I need about the day, and after photographing weddings for many years I don't need reminding to photograph the ceremony, first dance or speeches.
What is useful is anything I couldn't know myself: a particular person who is especially important to you, a family tradition, a meaningful detail or something unusual you're planning. Family group photographs are also worth listing in advance.
You're welcome to send a few photographs from Pinterest, Instagram or elsewhere if they help explain what you're drawn to. I won't spend your wedding recreating somebody else's photographs one by one, but inspiration can be a useful way for me to understand your taste.
Not every wedding needs one, and I'll only recommend a second photographer when I think they will genuinely add something to the story.
They can be particularly valuable when preparations are happening in different locations, when you'd like two perspectives during the ceremony, or when your plans mean I'll spend more time away from the reception photographing family groups or the couple session.
While I'm with you, the second photographer can continue documenting your guests: conversations, reactions, portraits and moments you may never have seen. That's often the biggest advantage. It's not simply about receiving more photographs; it's about being able to tell more of the story happening around you.
Of course. I've worked alongside many videographers over the years and good collaboration makes the experience better for everyone, especially the couple. I'm always happy to communicate, share space and find a solution that allows both photography and film to be created properly. If you haven't chosen a videographer yet, I'm also happy to recommend people I've enjoyed working with.
Wedding Content Creators can also be a great addition, especially if you'd like quick, social-first behind-the-scenes content. The important thing is coordination. During moments that cannot be repeated, such as the ceremony entrance or exit, everyone needs to understand positioning so that one person doesn't unintentionally block another person's view.
A content creator and a professional wedding videographer also provide different things. If professionally recorded vows, speeches, ceremony audio and a carefully edited wedding film are important to you, make sure you understand exactly what is included before deciding that one service can replace the other.
Planning to have a Wedding Content Creator? I've written a more detailed guide about what to consider before booking and how photographers, videographers and content creators can work together.
Read the Wedding Content Creator GuideWhat you'll receive after the wedding, from the final gallery and Sneak Peek to privacy, printing and wedding albums.
As a guide, my Half Day coverage includes 300+ carefully selected photographs and Full Day coverage includes 600+. These aren't upper limits. If your wedding produces more photographs that genuinely add to the story, I'll include them.
I don't believe a stronger gallery is created by filling it with dozens of almost identical frames. I carefully select the photographs that contribute something: a moment, expression, person, detail, atmosphere or part of the story.
Technical quality matters, but emotional value matters too. Occasionally a photograph of somebody important may deserve to remain in the story even if it isn't technically perfect. Ultimately, I'm curating a wedding story rather than trying to reach the largest possible number.
Your complete wedding gallery is delivered within three months of the wedding.
Every wedding is individually selected and edited rather than pushed through as quickly as possible. Different venues, lighting conditions and wedding days require different amounts of work, and I'd rather give each gallery the attention it needs than rush the final result simply to deliver it sooner.
Where Sneak Peek is included in your collection or added separately, you'll usually receive around 100–130 fully edited photographs within 1–5 days of the wedding.
Rather than choosing a handful of random photographs quickly, I go through the wedding day as a whole and create a smaller version of the complete story. That normally includes the preparations, people, ceremony, venue, details, emotions, couple photographs and reception.
It gives you something meaningful to enjoy and share while the complete wedding gallery is being carefully finished.
Your final photographs are delivered through a private online gallery. You'll receive high-resolution files suitable for printing as well as smaller web-size versions that are easier to use for online sharing.
Yes, you can print your photographs for personal use. USB delivery is also included with my standard wedding collections where specified; very short coverage and separate sessions may be delivered online only.
Your online wedding gallery is officially available for 12 months. I maintain my own working backups as part of my professional workflow, but I always recommend downloading your complete gallery and keeping your own backup in more than one place once it has been delivered.
That's completely fine. If you've asked me not to publish your wedding, your photographs can remain in a private, password-protected online gallery and I won't share them on my website or social media.
You remain in control of who you share the gallery with. You can also create a smaller selection of photographs to share with family or friends rather than giving everyone access to the complete wedding.
If privacy is particularly important to you, just let me know when we are discussing your booking so everything is clear from the beginning.
Albums are designed after the wedding, once you've had time to enjoy the complete gallery. For a main 30 × 30 cm wedding album, I normally ask you to select around 100 photographs that matter most to you. I then use those photographs to design the album as a complete visual story rather than simply placing them in chronological order page by page.
You'll receive the design to review before anything is sent to production. You can request changes to photographs or layouts, and the final design is always approved by you before the album is made. Parent albums are available in a smaller 20 × 20 cm format where included or ordered.
You don't have to decide about an album before the wedding. It can also be ordered afterwards when you've seen the complete gallery and know which photographs you want to live with in print.
The practical things to know before securing your date, choosing coverage and planning a wedding in Ireland or further afield.
Once you've decided you'd like me to photograph your wedding, I'll send you the photography agreement and booking details. Your date is secured once the agreement has been completed and the booking deposit has been paid.
You don't have to arrange a call before booking. Some couples have followed my work for a long time and already know that my photography feels right for them. If you're still deciding or simply want to talk through the wedding first, I'm always happy to arrange a relaxed video call and answer your questions.
If you're genuinely interested but not quite ready to complete the booking, I can sometimes provisionally hold a date. If another couple then becomes ready to book the same date, I'll contact you before releasing it rather than simply giving it away without warning.
Planning Notes
Around 12–14 months before the wedding is common, and some couples book two years ahead. Availability doesn't always follow a predictable pattern, though, so once your date is confirmed and you've found a photographer whose work you genuinely love, I wouldn't leave the decision too long. Take enough time to look through the work and make sure the style feels right for you, then secure the date when you're confident. If your wedding is only a few months or even weeks away, always ask. The date may still be available.
That's not a problem. I'm happy to help you choose, and you don't necessarily need to decide every extra at the time of booking. Many couples begin with their main wedding coverage and adjust things later once the timeline becomes clearer. Additional options can be added subject to availability, and a wedding album can also be ordered after the wedding.
Yes. I'm based in Sligo and photograph weddings throughout Ireland, as well as destination weddings further afield. For weddings involving significant travel or accommodation, we'll discuss the arrangements clearly before booking. Destination weddings are quoted individually because every location and travel plan is different.
Not at all. The entire process can be handled online through email, WhatsApp and video calls. Before the wedding you'll complete my Wedding Scenario and I'll review your plans from a photography point of view. If you need recommendations for venues, videographers, florists, planners or locations, I'm also happy to share what I've learned from working at weddings throughout Ireland. I'm your photographer rather than your wedding planner, but there's plenty of practical experience I can share when it's useful.
Contact me as soon as you know. If I'm available on your new date, I'll transfer your booking to the new date without an additional date-change fee. If I'm not available, the terms in your photography agreement will apply, and we'll go through the situation together so everything is clear.
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